New Week- Top 3 Life Helpers

Through this life we are faced with challenges, rewards, and everything in between. We encounter good people, and not so good people. But when we do find these good people and these good influences, life seems to move a little smoothly. Top 3 things to make a life a little easier.

1. Good friends.

Fine. Have a significant other, and be happy, but don’t lose your friends. Granted, if you find the right person they’ll be more than you could ever need, but you will always need your friends. Guys need to talk to guys, and girls need to talk to their girls; it’s just how it works. And the good friends are the friends that are going to accept that you can’t spend all your time partying and getting crazy, because you’re busy trying to get your life started with someone you love- and these are the type of friends that are one call away from a vent, or a game night in the man cave. Find those friends, and keep them.

2. Positive vibes.

Positive vibes in the work place, at home, at school, everywhere you are. Always surround yourself with positive thoughts and good intentions. There are things and people in this life that feed off of negativity, don’t be that person. Be the person that always has something good to say, and can create a solution to any problem. Your life will be so much simpler and happier if you could bring positivity to it every day.

3. Honesty and Trust.

Yes, these two fall together. You need to be honest with yourself and those around you to have trust. Some might think this only goes for the way you treat people; no, this goes for you too. You need to be honest with yourself to trust the moves and decisions you make in life. Be true to yourself. If you know something isn’t going to work out, or if this something isn’t what you really want in life, don’t pretend like it is. Being honest with yourself will make you feel comfortable in the world around you, and allow you to trust your instincts and not fear the obstacles in life.

New Week- Don’t Stop

Never stop. Never stop trying to be better. Never stop striving for happiness. Never stop creating new dreams. Once you’ve hit a goal, work towards another. Forever challenge yourself. We live in a world with endless opportunities. People always have something negative to say about the society we live in and how things are so hard- but, that’s the beauty of it; being challenge. And the people that say we’re limited, are the people that are small minded; don’t be small minded. The best things in life are created from dedication and hard work. Dream big and keep on dreaming. Don’t ever let anyone tell you no, and don’t ever stop at no. Be who you are and who you want to be, and never stop. The road is endless.

New Week- Good People

Are you a good person? Really think about it. Of course we all want success for ourselves, but a good person would also want success for those around them. A good person wants to see the people they love (i.e. family and friends) to be just as successful. Don’t be selfish, don’t be rude, and don’t be jealous. There is something in store for all of us; and for each person, there is something different. No two people are the same, and no two people are going to get the same. Help those, even if they don’t help you. Care for others, even if they don’t care for you. Pray for them, even if they don’t wish well for you. The difference between you and these other people, is that good things will come to you. Be known as the person who is always happy and is genuinely a good person- people love being around individuals like this for the good energy. Bottom line is to be a good person. Help others succeed, for this is part of the success of yourself- because being true to yourself and those around you is a puzzle piece to your own success.

New Week- Your Finish Line

Don’t let anyone tell you you can’t do it. It’s not about who’s the fastest or who’s the best. It’s not about who’s prettier or who’s smarter. Its not about who’s stronger or who’s taller. It’s about what makes you happy. If in the end you’re happy with the results, then that’s winning. Succeed at your own speed and at your own will. Everyone is built differently and everyone has different goals. Life is not a competition. Don’t ever feel threatened. If something doesn’t work and someone takes or accomplishes something before you, that doesn’t mean you need to stop and give up. It just means that there’s something better for you at your own finish line. Good things come to those who wait… And most importantly those who are humble. Be happy for the success of those around you, because the day you accomplish your own goals you’re going to want the same respect. Nothing good comes out of jealousy and envy. Be patient, but continue to grow- your finish line will come.

New Week- Originality

Be original.

1. Create your own footsteps.

Create your own path rather than following the path that already has footsteps. Just because there is someone going down one path doesn’t mean that’s the same path you should take.

2. Do what makes you happy.

Too many people are worried about what other people are doing.. Or some people are just too worried about what people are thinking of them. But, who cares? Stray away from trends. Do you.

3. Be true to yourself.

Remember who you are and where you came from. Don’t change yourself and your desires to fit in. The trends you’re trying to follow aren’t all that they’re cracked out to be.

New Week- Succeed

There are all kinds of different people in this world. There’s good people, and bad people. Happy people and sad people. Rich people and poor people. People who want change in their life and people who don’t. Who do you want to be? Do you want to be better for yourself and your family? Then stick up for yourself. Be happy for you. Be bold for you. Work hard for you. There are going to be people who ruin your day, but the only way they’ll ruin it and bring you down is if you let them. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, life is what you make of it. Here’s your chance, it’s a new week. New week meaning fresh. Set a goal for yourself this week, to be happy for 7 days straight. And remember that goal when people are putting you down. Remember that you deserve to be happy and you deserve to reach your goals. Strive…. And succeed. Succeed for the people who said you never would.

New Week- Good People

Appreciate the people who were there for you at your lowest. These are the people that are true to you. These are the people that want to see you succeed and aren’t going to give up on you just because you’ve hit a rough patch. The people who befriend you because of your success are just there for the, “I know that person!” Don’t be blind and ignore these people. We all want to think the best of people, but we also need to be realistic. In today’s world, everything is different- hello, catfish! Just be careful who you open up to. Friend people who you wouldn’t mind being compared to. Friend someone who brings out the good in you. Friend someone who makes you want to be a better person. These types of people are rare. So look careful, and choose wisely.

New Week- Pray

Pray for the people who are struggling. Pray for the people who have lost someone special to them. Pray for people who need financial help. Pray for people who need that job they just applied for. Pray for the health of someone old. Pray for the health of someone young. Trust and believe that good things come to those who wait. Trust and believe that good things come to good people. Be a good person to have good things come to you. Be the person you want to see in your children. Life will throw a million curve balls at us in life, but you should always have faith and always keep the positivity alive. Pray for others in the hopes they’ll pray for you in return- and even if they don’t, do it because you’re a good person.

New Week- Bad Timing

First off I’d like to apologize for the late post. However, posting this late has motivated me. I’m late in posting today due to the amount of stress I have right now. And why does stress motivate me? Because I want to be successful and happy in my life that I don’t ever have to stress again. It sucks to think we live in a world that’s so hard on us. Why is getting an education so difficult and expensive? Having gotten an education and degree, why is it still so hard to get a job after? Everything in our world is changing and advancing, which is making things become more and more expensive. The more luxurious our world gets, the more luxurious we want to live- meaning double the effort and work we have to put in to get these things. What happened to simplicity? What happened to flip phones? Now we’re paying close to 1k for an iPhone 6 and for what? Because it’s what’s new. To be completely honest, and I speak for myself, all I really want in life is to be able to get an education without stressing over money and how I’m going to pay for it. Once having finished school, then bring it on. Throw whatever you want at me and in my way. Give me the chance to be on the level of people who were able to get an education easier than the rest of us. I’m sorry I didn’t get to choose when I was brought into this world. Because if I were in charge of that, I would have been born a LONNGGGGG time ago when things were easier. I say easier because nothing even comes easy, I’m just saying things are a lot harder for our generation. But, there’s nothing we can do about any of that. So, battle through the stress and come out top. Because we, the people of this generation, are going to come out even stronger because we’ve had to work that much harder. So push yourself and don’t ever give up, no matter how much stress comes your way and how badly you want to throw in the towel.

New Week- Goodbye to the Norm

Stray away from the norm for once- get in touch with your other side. Get to know people from different places, who speak different languages, who live different lifestyles than the one you do. It’s nice to take yourself out of your own shoes for a little while and explore in the shoes of someone else. Find people who are willing to take these journeys through life with you- to laugh, explore, and travel with you. Get to know the world and get to know yourself in a different perspective. And in these journeys, you’ll see things that aren’t so pretty- people living on the streets, people dying of illnesses, violence, and so much more- and at that moment, be proud of who you are and the blessed life you’ve so fortunately been given. Explore and grow.