New Week- Something Personal

Happy Monday, everyone! First off, I’d like to apologize for my absence from blogging for the last two weeks for I have been traveling- what an experience! Secondly, I’d like to dedicate this post to the single moms… Especially my sister. Many single moms feel like they’re not thought about, or that people aren’t there for them. But I’m here to tell you you’re wrong. The people who love you think about you every day and want to make sure you’re holding up okay. Because we, the people who love you, know that you have the hardest, most rewarding job in the world. Talk about motivation Monday! Motivation to get up every morning (especially 3 in the morning) and support the life of yourself and your child. Granted, times are hard and you wish you had someone there to help you. But you know what? All of the hard work you are doing right now, all of the struggling, the sadness, and stress you’re going through at this time in your life is all for something great- the greatness of your child’s future. You’re appreciated and acknowledged for your hard work. And one day, your child is going to see that his/her mother did everything in their power to give them the best life possible. First day of school, graduation day, their wedding day, all of their birthdays… It’s MOM who made it all possible. And at that moment, when your child realizes you’re their superhero, you’ll realize that all of your struggles will have been worth it. So stick through it to reach that point and know you’re not alone- with this new life you’ve brought into this world, you’ll never be alone again.

Katie, I love you, and I’m so proud of you. Brooklyn is such a lucky girl to have such a hard working mom like you. Smile, be happy, and love life so that she can grow up to be as beautiful as you. Thank you for making me such a lucky aunt, and most importantly, a lucky sister.

Hm, interesting

So, I was out yesterday and I went to the restroom at the restaurant and saw the baby changing table and thought to myself, “I wonder if guy’s restrooms have changing tables?” So when my boyfriend came out of the restroom, I asked him. His response, “Some do, but not all. This one didn’t.” And I just wondered why that was. Why is it that all women’s restrooms have changing tables, but not men’s restrooms? Sure, the kids usually go to the restrooms with the mothers, but what if the mother isn’t around? What if the dad wants to have an outing with his kid, have some bonding time… Where is he supposed to change the baby? What if the mother, God forbid, passes away and now it’s the fathers responsibly to care for this child alone? He goes out somewhere and needs to change his baby, then what? Kind of sad really to think that dads can’t do some things moms can, or vise versa. Just interesting how the world around us functions and thinks.