So, while talking with a friend, we realized that technology plays a big part in relationships- mainly a negative part, might I add. I can’t speak for males, but I can speak for myself. And when I speak for myself, I’ve realized I’m also speaking for a lot of females. Before technology, dating was so simple. You just got to know someone. They’d call your house phone, or just show up. Now, us girls find ourselves constantly checking our phones for that call, text, tweet, instagram tag, email, ANYTHING. And it just drives us insane. While talking to my friend, she said, “I’ve never in my life felt this crazy. Who needs FBI’s when you can just hire a jealous girlfriend.” How true is that? Jealous girlfriends are the perfect PI’s and that’s so scary because it’s technology that has pushed us to be this way. No matter how hard we don’t want to be this way, it just happens. You’re either driving yourself crazy trying to NOT look at your phone, or driving yourself crazy looking at it and waiting. The saddest part of the whole thing is that things will never be the way they were before technology. In fact, it’s only going to get worse. Technology is advancing every single day, it’s not decreasing. And even if you TRY to not use technology, you just can’t- it’s taken over everything… It’s taken over our lives and ruining the good things.

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